How to choose the perfect date night outfit?

So since Valentine’s day is just around the corner I see people panicking about their wardrobe and their outfits, because they struggle to put together an outfit that will take away the breath of their partner or their date.

No worry ladies! I’m always here to help you with anything, so here comes the cavalry! Because in today’s post, I will show you how to choose your outfit for a date.

These tips can work on any kind of date, it doesn’t matter if you are already in a relationship or still searching for your soul mate.

When it comes to choosing the right outfit for a date, you have to pay attention to some things, but the good news is, if you just think it through, you will be able to come up with your perfect outfit that you are going to feel hella sexy and confident in.

    First, let’s break down your outfit into four parts: 

  1. Top
  2. Bottom
  3. Shoes
  4. Accessories (like jewelry, jackets, bags etc.)

When you start to put together your outfit, try to pay attention to them one by one. Here are some questions you can ask yourself to get you started with combining and picking the perfect outfit.

Do you have a favorite date outfit?

A: Yes

B: No

A:Do you want something new?

a: Yes — > Choose your favorite part of that outfit and build the new outfit around it.

b: No — > Use the outfit

B:Do you have a favorite everyday outfit?

a: Yes — > Choose your favorite part of that outfit and build the new outfit around it. 

b: No —> Choose your favorite piece of clothing for the base. 

So if you go through these questions, now you probably have a piece of clothing of your choice, which is going to be the base of the outfit that we are going to build together.

Here are the tips you can continue with:

  • If the clothing you chose is really extravagant you may leave it as the main element of the outfit. The main element should be something that people would look at first when they see you. Something that catches attention in your outfit.
  • Don’t mix main elements, because that can be too much and you would be considered as try-hard. There are some occasions or styles where it looks good, but it’s risky. You can try it if you feel dangerous, but if you want to play it safe, try to choose a maximum of two main elements for an outfit.
  • Consider the location and the occion of the date. If you are going to meet for a long walk, don’t choose uncomfortable shoes even if they look hot. But for example when the weather is colder, but you’re going to meet in a pub, you can totally go with the little thinner jacket, which looks much better than your winter one.
  • Think about the taste and style of the other one. Of course you should dress for yourself first, but if you know that the other party likes one of your necklaces more than the others, you can add it to the outfit. They are going to be so happy that you thought about their taste as well.
  • But the most important thing is to feel comfortable and confident in your outfit! That may sound like a cliche, but it is the truth: you feel it what looks good on you. So if you don’t like something on you, you shouldn’t wear it! Pay attention to your emotions when you try out different outfits, because your gut gives you the best advice.

Choosing the perfect date outfit will only work if you feel confident in your clothes. I gave you some questions you can consider and they can get you to a better outfit, an outfit that you feel like it was just made for you.

Below you can see my outfit. This is something I absolutely love to wear and I also know that these my partner’s favorites on me.


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